Breaking Down Wedding Dress Codes

Jun 7

Whether you are a couple carefully trying to communicate how you would like your guests to dress for the special day or a wedding guest earnestly trying to figure out what the dress code means exactly in this particular context, we have taken the time to break down the most common dress codes, as well as a few fun and unique ones that are gaining popularity and on the rise in the wedding scene. If you don’t see your particular theme on this list, always reach out to the couple for clarification. And a note to our couples, always include a dress code and photo examples (and even a color scheme) when possible to help guests better understand what they are expected to wear. Without further ado, let’s get into it!

Black Tie: Think royalty, Oscar red carpet looks. This means tuxedos (NOT suits) and more conservative floor length-gowns (no excessive skin showing).

man in black tie suit with black bow tie

Formal or Black Tie Optional: Slightly more relaxed, guests are welcome to wear a tux or suit and floor-length evening gowns of any type.

woman in a blue formal floor-length dress

Semi-Formal or Cocktail Attire: The most common dress code, this offers guests a more relaxed option involving dressy knee-length dresses, pantsuits, suits, and slacks.

Beach Attire: Consider breezy linen button-downs and flowy maxi dresses for this wedding dress code. If the wedding is directly on the beach, make sure you also consider shoes - meaning dressy sandals or boat shoes that can easily slide off.

Garden Party: Similar to the beach attire, with this dress code leans semi-formal but with soft color palettes. Florals also are often encouraged.

woman in a light green leaf patterned dress

man in tan trousers with a floral suit jacket

Met Gala Realness: This is a fun dress code that we have seen on the rise as couples opt for more and more unique wedding themes. This is a formal dress code but with artistic flair. Think feather, jewels, and art combined into one gaudy, formal look. Go crazy with your ideas and quirky dress.

a woman in an extravagant bright orange feathered dress

a man in a heavily jeweled suit with chains

Vintage Inspired: This particular dress code should be time specific so whether that’s the roaring 20s, classic 50s, or funky 70s, take elements of that day and combine it with modern formal wear. Have fun and play it up! The couple who chooses this dress code will certainly appreciate all the effort.

a woman is wearing a fringe and sequin dress with a fur mantel

Western Chic: A fun and formal take on Western wear, this dress code encourages cowboy hats, cowboy boots, and bolo ties paired with flowy dresses and fitted suits.